Looks like you're in the UK. Did you know The Strategist is too? From the moment I heard his almost scarily deep belly laugh and found out that he, too, grew up in the yawning northern suburbs of Atlanta and had a propensity for bar fights and tasteless jokes, we were best friends. Why not take a chance on him, as Abba would say.
Jun 16th, by OMGchronicles. In my poll, people overwhelming thought those behaviors were just as much of a betrayal as infidelity. We have not had successful sex in 19 years. He has no interest in rectifying his problem. Wonderful man in all other ways, but I am very depressed over this. Secret looks, anticipation.
In a sexual rut with your partner? Take heart -- it's natural for partners' sex drives to ebb and flow through the years and things can definitely improve in the bedroom. Below, sex therapists share seven pieces of advice that have worked for real couples they've counseled through the years. Don't jump to conclusions about your partner's sex drive without consulting him or her. Take the time to reach out, said New York City-based sex therapist Gracie Landes , pointing to the example of a client who assumed her husband was disinterested in sex based off another therapist's observation.
Pick your moment to talk. There are all sorts of reasons people stop having sex — stress, illness, worry about performing, low libido, age, menopause and lack of body confidence. Pick your moment to listen. Do your best not to take it personally.